Why We Love Things (That Have Always Been Awesome) More Now Thanks to Social Media

OK, longest blog title ever right?  My bad.  Anyway.

(stepping up onto the soapbox)

We love the internet, right?  For sure.  The internet brought you to this blog, how could you not?!  But the internet, while awesome, has made life a bit more…complicated.  Craigslist Killer, infidelity, lost productivity at work, sure.  But then there’s also social media.  Let’s talk about that…as those other topics aren’t really my expertise (not that social media is, either…).

 

Social media has concentrated the internet for us.  Instead of having to scour the internet for funny and interesting things, we’re able to post and chatter about it all in one place.  Crafts and DIY projects (among much more) at Pinterest, family and friend connections (and their respective drama) on Facebook, and just about ANYTHING on Twitter gets shoved right under your nose. 

 

Today a friend (@tokarrai) on Twitter (and when I say friend, I mean someone I’ve never met but have had the pleasure to interact with on the world wide web) tweeted something that’s been on my mind for awhile.  It started with a rant about Nickelback, but then he said something about zombies being played out.  And this made me think…ok, lots of things are SO in right now because we can all enjoy them together, or commiserate together (when it comes to hating Nickelback as a whole). 

 

Don’t get me wrong.  I love bacon, zombies, hating Nickelback, mustaches, and many other awesome things finding fame (again) on the web.  But really people.  Really?  Must we go on and on about bacon?  I get it.  Zombies are cool.  But like, really?  I don’t know.  It just seems like Twitter, Facebook and Pinterest just put it all in our faces 24/7.  Instead, I’m just gonna go on about Gotye memes, post pictures to Instagram and retweet that Condescending Wonka guy.  You know, go against the grain. J

 

What’s too concentrated for you on the net?

**clunk** (hopping off the soapbox)

“You’re funny.”

“You’re funny.”

If you spend any time on the internet, you’re surely aware that LOL generally no longer means “laughing out loud.” LOL has now become the filler response.

Awkward comment? LOL
I’m not really listening to you. LOL
I want to avoid what you’re really asking/saying. LOL

The LOL problem has been around awhile, mostly through electronic communications; brief email threads, IMs, text messages. However, lately, I’ve seen it infiltrate into oral communication.

This first came to my attention back in September. I was dating this guy. He was…well…let’s just say there were a lot of comments he made I did not know how to respond to (and honestly, I’m just glad to live to tell this tale…this whole experience is a blog post in and of itself).
So we were driving somewhere sometime. He said something rude/offensive/obscure and I just brushed it off with a “you’re funny.”

His response? “You say that a lot.”

Oops.

So I guess I do. Since then I’ve been hyper sensitive to the filler responses in communication. Hopefully I’ve improved, but sometimes there just isn’t anything else to say besides “you’re funny.”
I think since then I’ve pointed it out to a few friends who are repeat offenders. I don’t do it to stir the pot (generally), but sometimes I know what I’ve said wasn’t all that funny. Please save the “you’re funny” for when I’ve actually tickled you. I mean, I am not the world’s funniest person, but I’ve been know to make ‘em laugh. When I’ve said something, they usually just laugh it off and we move on.

It’s got me thinking. This could mean 2 things.
A. We aren’t listening as closely as we should.
B. We don’t have the balls to react honestly in some conversations.

It’s almost as annoying as an offense as always telling people “I’m fine.”

Ooooomphm. But then we’re walking the fine line of divulging too much to complete strangers.

Anyway. I digress. Circling back…

Think back to recent conversations, electronic or oral. Are you LOL-ing a bit too much? Perhaps you’re telling someone they’re funny after they’ve put them self out in the proverbial “there.”

Just something to chew on. :)

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